Guns For Hands

" But there;s hope out the window, so that's where we'll go, let's go outside and all join hands; but until then you'll never understand"- Twenty One Pilots

Some people don't understand me and that's okay. Its okay not to get something or someone and its okay to be wrong, its okay to make mistakes and its okay to be utterly crazy. It upsets me to see people sucked into the reality of what people expect from each other and be someone who they not entirely are. Be you and be happy with who you are. If you like having space buns in your hair, you rock it. If you want to wear clothes that don't entirely match, I think you look rad. If you want to skate bored or bike everywhere, what's stopping you? You like rock music, play it loud and proud. What is stopping you from being yourself? because people will judge you you say?

No matter what you do someone will judge you, every human does it, it's normal; but if that is what is stopping you from being you - stop - because at the end of the day YOUR the only one who is important; your happiness. 

"What if my friends judge me" - Screw them ! if they are your true friends they would be all for it and if anything want to join in with your new look/style/hobby or what not. 

"I don't have the confidence" - of course you do, your the one who has passion about it, push the boundary; who cares! 

" What will they think?" - stop dwelling on the idea and go for it ! 

"I don't want to get hate for it" - why do people take hate? why let someone so immature being you down for doing or wearing something you love? because its true that they are either jealous, have confidence issues or have nothing to do with their pathetic lives. I've had alot of hate in my time for being "different", "not the norm" or "just plain weird" and to be honest it drives me to be more bizarre because I like the way I am and dress. 

All these excuses can be over come by just doing what you love. Live in the moment and not thinking of what people think, make yourself happy; and I guarantee you if someone puts you down they are jealous because they can't do the same. They are trapped in the cycle of being scared of being judged. I'm glad I got this off my chest because I hate hearing girls and guys scared of people judging them for something which is them and they love, everyone has their opinions yes but lets not be nasty about it. If anyone ever wants to talk anonymous or not message me here! I'll answerers anything and everything, always willing to lend a hand.Post soon, 

Take care - 

 Caitlyn x